how to talk to a girl that you like for first time

hello everybody today we will talk about the most important step on how to get a girlfriend  which is how to talk to a girl that you like 

                                                            how to talk to a girl

When you want to go and talk to that girl you like, the first thing you need to do remember is that you are a man; and a man goes after what he wants in life.

You don’t need permission to go talk to her.

You don’t need an excuse. It is your right to go up to her.

Why?

Because you WANT TO.

It’s like picking up your cell phone. Do you have to sit there and think about how you’re going to do it, or if it’s okay to do it, or what’s the right way to do it? NO. You just do it.

Society has programmed you to thinking you need to do or be something in order to have the right to go talk to a girl; this is complete bullshit. If you want to talk to her, go talk to her. You have just as much right as anyone else.

The top secret pickup line I usually use is:

“Hi, I’m abdou. How’s it going?” It works every time ;)

You don’t need any fancy or funny lines.

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how to get a girlfriend using body language

hello everybody to another lessons on how to get a girlfriend today we will see what is the body language 

and learn how to attract woman using it

                                                      what is the body language

Body language  is very important for one simple reason. 93% of our communication is non‑verbal. What this means is that the words we say only account for 7% of what we are communicating. The other 93% is our body language and our tone of voice. know, I will teach you the basics of body language  that women find attractive.

                                          

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Experts on human mating state that women may display the following signals when they are interested in you:

1. She blushes in your presence. 

2. She plays with her hair in your presence. 

3. She walks past you more than once. She is trying to get your attention. 

4. She keeps looking at you. She can not take her eyes of you. 

5. She shows some flesh in your presence, like pulling on her collar or lifting up her dress. 

6. She moves closer to you. 

7. Her chest is facing you. 

8. She smiles at you with a full set of teeth; not just the upper row. 

9. She stays near you for most of the night. 

10. Her head tilts slightly down when you look at her; especially if she is blushing at the same time. 

11. Her shoulders are slightly raised when she is talking with you. 

12. Her arms are open and to the side when you talk to her. 

13. Her pupils are enlarged when you make eye contact with her. 

14. She licks her lips in your presence. 

15. Her head is tilted slightly to the side when you talk to her. 

16. She breaks apart from her group of friends to talk to you. 

17. You are with a group of people and she talks to you more often than anyone in the group. 

18. She asks you questions about yourself. 

19. She laughs at all of your jokes. 

20. She says that you are cute. (Obvious) 

21. She tells you something personal about herself. 

22. She compliments one of your clothing items. 

23. She asks for a cigarette or for a light. 

24. She asks for the time. 

25. She makes verbal contact with you before you make verbal contact with her. 

26. She mentions that she is recently out of a relationship. 

27. She says something overtly sexual to you; even if it is in a joking manner. 

28. Her attitude is more playful with you than with other members of the group. 

29. She touches you in any way. 

30. She gives you any kind of compliment. 

Experts on human mating state that women may display the following signals when they are not interested in you: 

1. She has her arms crossed in your presence. 

2. She turns her back to you. 

3. She turns her shoulder to you; i.e. giving you the cold shoulder. 

4. She appears stiff in your presence. 

5. Her legs are tightly crossed in your presence. 

6. She does not make eye contact with you. 

7. She pretends that she does not notice you. 

8. She talks to friends instead of you. 

9. She does not display any emotion when you make your approach. 

10. She clings to her friend when you approach her. 

11. She pretends she is lost in the music when you make your approach. 

12. She does not smile back at you. 

13. Her head tilt is perfectly strait. 

14. She does not raise her shoulders at all when you make your approach. 

15. Her lips are pursed in your presence

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today we will see the most Easiest and powerful tips on how to get a girlfriend let's start:

It is usually harder for guys to get a girlfriend than it is for girls to get a boyfriend. For all those who
haven't been lucky in the love department, follow these steps to become attractive to women.

                                                                    

steps

1. Have good personal hygiene. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get a girl. For the most part, just caring 

about how you are is enough. Wear clothes that fit, and make sure your body is clean. (Keep clean 

Teeth, trim nails, Tidy Hair, No Unibrows, etc...) 

2. Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do not like slouchers. Bad posture gives the 

impression of low confidence. Smiling makes a guy more friendly and welcoming. A good walking 

style,(straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well-distanced strides) gives the impression of 

intelligence. 

3. Wearing a large amount of cologne is Not a good idea, wearing 2 or more different types of cologne is 

an even worse idea, and always remember with your smell, a little goes a Long way. 

4. Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a 

place that is conducive to a skill of yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation. 

Go out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly looking for women 

immediately lower their value. Go out with your friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a 

bookstore, if you're more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a good time. The 

Internet does not count. 

5. Be funny. If you're not naturally funny, don't try too hard around her. Pitch jokes to other people first 

and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard 

winning a girl without humor. 

6. "Plant some seeds". Flirt casually with waitresses. Make a passing comment and smile to a girl 

walking by. Toast a woman at the bar. Then go back to having a good time with your friends. In a 

short time, you'll notice women slowly gravitating to you. 

7. Qualify them. Don't be a jerk about it... but in a fun, playful way, make her prove her value to you. 

Something as simple as "Are you open-minded? Cool, because I like open-minded people." 

8. Talk. Silence is uncomfortable. (On the other hand, women or men who do nothing but talk and never 

listen can be annoying.) 

9. Learn how to flirt. Flirting is an art, and is easily the most important social skill for men to learn. Try 

taking a comedy class, or talk to her like she's your little sister...but do so with a smile, so she will 

know you are kidding. 

10. Connect with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile and a story of your 

own if she tells you something unique about herself that you can relate to. WARNING: If she gives you 

something like "Oh, I like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique. Instead, ask for 

more information and then connect with it. 11. Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat 

on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl to feel connected with 

the guy. 

12. Feel great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too. 

13. Don't pretend to be someone you aren't. You may think you will win her over with like mindedness, but 

in the end she will find you out. Find a common interest, something you both like instead. 

14. Show your interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is to avoid it from the start. After finding 

common interests, make your intentions clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but 

you're fun to talk to." 

15. Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your 

phone so you'll have mine." 

16. And once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend do not--I repeat--

do not stop the chivalry. Women are too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to 

show her you care is to continue to do the little things for her. You still need to open her car door, walk 

her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few 

hours after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.) Remember, show affection 

and respect and you'll get affection and respect. 

 

                                                                      Tips 

• Body language is very important. Be sure to keep a sturdy, upright frame and look her in the eye. 

Now, be careful not to stare at her either. Being natural is key. 

detest the scent of cologne. Do not marinate yourself with scents. Ladies complain of too much 

cologne, not too little. Do not exceed the maximum of three sprays on the upper body. Especially if 

you wear cologne every day. It's the general problem where a person gradually become accustomed 

to the cologne levels in their own scent that they need more and more of the stuff to be able to smell it 

themselves. You might not be able to smell it, but it's there. 

• Guys do not need to look like Brad Pitt to find a girlfriend. Just keep hair, teeth and nails clean and 

neat. Ladies are quick to notice little details especially in the hands and faces. 

• Be a good conversationalist. Read up on the latest in politics, entertainment, arts and even sports 

news. Women love a well-informed man. It makes him look well-educated and, therefore, richer in 

every aspect. Or just actually be well-educated. 

• Do listen to the lady before responding. Women do not like to be cut off. They like to be considered 

and feel important. • Do pay on the first drink, first date, first taxi cab ride, etc. It makes a gentleman out of a man. 

• Very important - offer to walk or drive the lady home (or anywhere she wants to go). This makes the 

man seem sincerely concerned for her well-being. 

• Don't say things you need to explain, this is the biggest mood killer. 

• Be honest and forthright, but not aggressive. Girls appreciate you telling them how you feel. 

• Don't annoy your girl by texting her every night. If she texts you, reply but unless you have something 

to say then don't text. It gets annoying when someone keeps texting you saying "what r u doing?", so 

if you absolutely can't go without saying something everyday, at least correct your grammar. At the 

very minimum, spell words correctly. 

• Don't be afraid to display your affection in public. 

• Dress to match, Black and Whites, Browns and Blues, even if they don't say anything, girls notice. 

• Don't be afraid to touch her, if you find yourself flirting, lightly touch her arm or waist. 

• Be a gentleman! Open car doors for her and remember the "ladies first" rule 

• Be Yourself 

• If your going to the movies, Get one large popcorn to share it, and maybe your hands will touch. 

 

                                                               Warnings 

• Do not attempt to stalk the lady! Know when she means no! 

• Do not ask out someone too young because they are probably not ready. 

• Grinning like the Cheshire cat can often creep someone out. Unless she likes that, but hey, it's your 

girl. 

• Taking over the entire conversation is over-bearing and rude. 

• Do not insist relentlessly on an offer when the lady has turned it down. It may be that she has no use 

for or does not feel good about the suggestion. Pushing her to accept will only increase the possibility 

of rejection. No one likes to feel forced into doing something. This should be mutual, OK? 

• Avoid being a close talker. Nobody likes that. (particularly if you have bad breath) 

• Don't make disgusting body jokes, ask them their age or weight. Girls hate that. • Don't make her feel like a sex object instead of a human being, unless you're trying to get a loose girl. 

Less promiscuous girls are turned off by such patronization and bigotry. 

 

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                         11 - How To Go On Your First Date & What To Do

Here are some guidelines:

First of all, keep it very casual. Most guys use the day two to try to really impress a woman. They take her to a fancy, expensive restaurant. They pick her up in the car. They take her all these places and a lot of money. And that just puts a lot of pressure on  her and on him, and it's not just natural.

You never need to impress a woman.

What you need to do is like and accept yourself; then you won’t care if anyone likes you or not because you are already self validated.

When you accept yourself, other people have no choice but to accept you.

So, keep your date/hangout very casual. And if possible involve little or no money in the date. If it's summer or you live in a warm climate then take her to the beach, take her for a walk, take her to a park. My best dates are when I do that. If you have a car, take her in the car and go drive to some nice place, nice spot and then have a little picnic or something.

Women aren't looking for anything fancy. And most women get taken out to a restaurant or the movies on the first date, and they're sick of it. Be original. The movies is the worst place you can ever take the girl on a day two, because it takes away the opportunity for you two to connect, and talk, and form some kind of strong bond.

Although the movies can work sometimes, it is much better if you plan a hangout where you and her are going to be engaged in a social activity together, things like mini golf, bowling, walking in the park, walking on the beach, going shopping together, having her join you to go shop for some things that you need for your hobby. Just try it to make it as casual and as cool as possible.

If you can't think of anything then meeting at a coffee shop is also good, because it doesn't cost a lot of money and you kind of have a time limit on your date. So it's not too long. If things go well you can take the date somewhere else, maybe to the movies, or shopping, or just walking around the city. Or you can just go home.

Another important thing you need to do on your date is always lead. Do not ask the woman, "So what do you want to do now? Where do you want to go next?" Women hate making decisions, especially in a situation when they're with a man they like. Be the man. Take the lead. Make the decisions.

Women don't care if you make bad decisions as long as you make some decision. If you put the pressure on the woman to decide where you're going to go and how long you're going to stay etc. she's going to lose attraction for you. She does not want to think. She wants to be present in the moment and swept away. It's your job to lead, so be the man and lead all the way.

The important thing to remember is your day two should be  something that fits your everyday lifestyle. If you never go to a fancy restaurant then don't invite her to a fancy restaurant because you are misrepresenting yourself. If she is taken on a  fancy restaurant on the first date she is going to expect that

you're going to keep taking her to fancy places.

Remember to flirt, and touch, and just be light‑hearted and playful, and have a good time, because that's all women are looking for. They just want to have a good time.

Exercise: If you have a girl you're going to take out, or if you don't have a girl then pretend you have one you're going to take out, and sit down and plan a date right now. See what you would plan, where you would meet. Are you going to pick her up, or are you going to ask her meet you somewhere? Where are you going to go? If you have fun there, where are you going to go next after that? See if you can plan something that is very low cost or free

and that is fun and low pressure, and allows you to be playful in your element, show your personality, connect with her, and just have a good time. If you can bring your girl into your reality and show her your world, that will do wonders for you.

For example; if you're part of a band, then bring her to a practice and let her see you jamming with your friends. If you do  videography, then show her your equipment, and maybe show her some work that you've done.

Whenever you can show a woman a part of your life she feels more safe and secure, and connected to you because she feels like she knows you better. So use the day two to really showcase who you are, what you are about, what your likes are, and don't try to be too accommodating, and think about how to make a perfect day two for her. She wants to get to know you, so give her

the real you upfront.

                      12 ‑ How To Know When She’s Ready To Be Kissed

So, now you are either still on your day two or you're on your day three or day four and you would like to kiss her. There are no rules set in stone saying when you should kiss a girl, but if a girl likes you then you should probably have kissed her between the first and fourth time you have hung out together.

It is very important to point out that not all women are the same. Some women think sex is no big deal and will kiss you very easily. Other women need more time and connection before they're able to open up physically to you. So be aware of this. Just because a girl isn't ready to kiss you it doesn't necessarily mean that she's not crazy about you. Just give her a bit more time. If a girl keeps hanging out with you then she obviously likes you, so it's just a matter of waiting for the right moment to do it.

OK. So now we are going to talk about how to get your first kiss with the girl that you are hanging out with. Touch is very important. Again, a lot of guys make this mistake. They like a girl so much, they treat her really nicely and they're really careful about how they act with her and they don't touch her in any way. This is a huge  mistake. If you never touch a girl then the leap between talking to her and kissing her is going to be massive and jumping from just hanging out and talking to her and kissing her is going to be too

weird and awkward.

So how do you do it? What is the proper way? The proper way is to initiate touch from the very beginning of the relationship. She needs to be used to your body close to hers so make sure during your day two and onwards there is a lot of touching going on. Put your arm around her, walk around with your arm around her, poke her, playfully pinch her, tickle her, hold her hand, stroke her hair, and touch her arm when you are talking to her.

Touch all of these non‑private areas of her body as often as possible to get her used to you touching her. This also lets her know that you're a sexual being and you're not afraid of being sexual. If you've been holding hands or  arm and arm all day then it's very easy for you to turn your head and kiss her, but if you've been separate all day and just talking then the leap between just talking and then leaning in to kiss her will be very awkward and risky.

So the secret of kissing a woman is to do a lot of touching first. Get her used to your touch.

How to know when she's ready to be kissed? When you see that the woman you're with is very comfortable with your arms around her, holding your hand, she doesn't pull away at any time, she stays close to you, when you're sitting side by side your legs are touching, your bodies are touching.Once you're at this stage she's pretty well ready to be kissed. If you notice that she does not move away when you touch her then you can be pretty damn sure that she's ready for you to kiss her.

So the way to kiss her is to look into her eyes and just be talking to her or maybe be silent. Brush her hair aside and see if she flinches or not. If she doesn't flinch then lean in and give her a kiss. Most of the times she will accept your kiss and be happy that you're kissing her.

In some rare instances you will find out that she's a very shy girl and she might giggle and turn away at the last minute. If she giggles and turns away and isn't offended then it's no problem. She just needs a bit more time. You can try again in five minutes, ten minutes, half an hour, or maybe the next time you see her. It's no big deal. Just take it as a joke, take it playfully, and don't be pushy in any kind of way. When she's ready she will do it. And if

she’s not interested, then move on to another girl.

The first kiss tells the girl a lot about the chemistry between you two, so it's very important that you give her a good experience. The first times you kiss a woman do not stick your tongue down her throat. Keep the kiss very light.

Use mostly your lips and just lick her lips a bit, maybe have some tongue to tongue, but keep it very light. Also, be the first one to end the kiss. This shows her that she can be safe around you, that you can control yourself sexually, and that she can be safe to open up to you sexually. It also leaves her longing for more.

After the first kiss I like to just continue on with casual conversation and most times the girl will look at you with a look in her eyes that's saying 'oh my God! I can't believe you just kissed me and now you're just casually talking to me again and you stopped the kiss so quickly'. This creates anticipation. Remember, girls love a challenge. Girls love to be teased. You can go in and kiss her a minute later or two minutes later and the second kiss

can be a lot more intimate and intense than the first.

The first kiss communicates that you are safe, that everything is OK, and that you are not desperate. The first kiss is where you give your first impression to her about how you are sexually. When she feels that it is light and non‑obtrusive then she will appreciate you and really fall for you.

So remember! Always lead up to a kiss with a lot of touching. If you do not touch the woman you are dating then it will be very, very hard and awkward to find a moment in which to kiss her. Find ways in which you can be close together physically and have a lot of touch between you so that when it comes time to kiss it will be a natural, effortless, and fun transition that both of you will enjoy.

                                              Conclusion 

Now that you have gone through these simple 12 steps, it’s time to go out there and practice! Just remember some of the most important points. Stay positive, playful, and lighthearted. Be fully present with women you're talking to. Show your confidence through being completely honest and transparent about who you really are, and how you really feel.

Compliment women to make them feel good about themselves, and make them open up to you emotionally. Compliment women to keep you out of the friend zone. Ask women out so you stay out of the friend zone.

When you're flirting with her, stay playful, friendly, and lighthearted. And remember, this is a game to be enjoyed.

When you follow the 12 steps that i give you, you will find that

getting a girlfriend is a lot easier than you thought.

Thank you very much for reading this post. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors.

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                                        7 - The Secrets Of Flirting Revealed

Now that she has responded positively to your compliment, and you are having a conversation that has an easy natural flow to it, where you are being playful and lighthearted, it is time that you flirt with her a bit. Flirting is basically playful conversation and playful teasing that has a sexual undertone to it.

When men are attracted to a woman, they make the mistake of being too nice to her. This does not work. If you are interested in a woman, and you are being so nice to her, she is just going to think you just want to be friends. It is not going to arouse any kind of emotional response in her.

Remember! WOMEN ARE HIGHLY EMOTIONAL CREATURES. They love drama; they love the ups and downs of emotions. When you are talking to her, you want her to feel a roller-coaster of emotions. 

If your conversation is monotonous, bland and just nice, then she is not going to walk away thinking about you at all. You need to make yourself memorable in her mind, and you do this by playfully teasing her, whichs is the same as saying flirting with her. Flirting is simply playful teasing with a sexual undertone.

Flirting can happen at the verbal level, with words and at the non‑verbal level using body language. Some verbal examples of flirting could include things such as 'Wow you are really special. Did you go to the school in the short bus?' 'Oh my God, you are so cute, I just want to take you home and make you my pet ; )'.

 You can also use playful, joking, disapproval to tease her such as 'Oh my God, I can't believe you just said that. That's it; I think we need to break up. I want all my CDs back.' 'Oh my God, you live in xyz part of town? Oh I am sorry. I totally can't hang out with you. You are too much a nerd for me.' 'Oh you like xyz movie. Oh, that's it. I am sorry, I think we have to stop this conversation, I know. Have a nice life.'

These are all examples of playful flirting, playful teasing. Notice, they are in no way, shape or form, hurtful or offensive to her. You are not trying to offend her, or hurt her in any way. You are not trying to hurt her  self‑esteem in any way. Flirting is done in a way that is very obvious that you are joking.

From time to time, a woman will misunderstand you and take offense to what you say. If that happens, you can simply apologize and genuinely tell her that you didn't mean to hurt her feelings and that you were just joking around. When a woman sees that you generally didn't mean to hurt her feelings, her ego, her self‑esteem, she will easily forget about it.

But remember, teasing is playful and not made to hurt anyone. So don't make it too personal and keep it very fun, playful and light. The way you can flirt with a girl non‑verbally is through your body language. You can look at a girl in a way that is slightly sexual but at the same time playful and lighthearted. You do not want to look at her like you are looking at a piece of steak that you want to jump on and devour.

One thing that really excites woman is emotions; is touch. If you are in an appropriate environment to touch her, then do so as much as possible. When I say touch her, I mean touching her in non‑sexual areas of her body first.

Take her hand; touch her elbow, her shoulder, her forearm, the small of her back. Give her a touch here and there. Let her know that you are not afraid to touch her. When we speak to someone and we touch them simultaneously, it impacts them on a much more emotional level.

Remember, you want to be emotionally impactful in order for a woman to be attracted to you and to  remember you and to think about you when you walk away. Also, you want to show her that you are not just a potential friend, that you are interested in her romantically.

If a woman accepts your compliments cheerfully, and sits there and has a conversation with you, and  playfully teases you back and forth and flirts with you, then that's a pretty big sign that she may be interested in you.

Remember! WOMEN ARE VERY EMOTIONAL CREATURES. You want to create a roller-coaster of emotions when you talk to them. Playfully teaseat any opportunity that arises. Don't be afraid to tease. The last thing a woman wants is some boring guy to just be nice to her. Everyone is nice to her. Be different!

Exercise: When you go out and have conversations with women, or even with men, make an effort to see how much you can playfully tease with them. Make it a habit of not taking your conversations and interactions with people so seriously. Don't take yourself or other people too seriously.

See how much playful banter you can throw back and forth between you and another person. Flirting is a skill that will be developed over time and practice. So practice at every chance you get. Just because you are not seducing a specific woman, you can still tease her playfully, just to get your practice going.

Remember, the more you practice something, the better you get at it. So, once a woman you’re attracted to shows up in front of you, you'll be ready to tease her playfully, and flirt with her and make her feel that emotional rollercoaster that will have her absolutely loving your company.

The main thing to learn about flirting is this. Flirting is a playful, lighthearted activity. It is meant to be fun for both people. So have fun with it. Women love a man with a sense of humor. And when you flirt with a

woman, you are demonstrating to her that you have a great personality.

                                                             8 - How To Ask Her Out

Now that you've successfully walked up to her and had a playful, entertaining conversation with her, it is time to ask her out. Do not wait too long to do this. Hesitation is the enemy of seduction. The more quickly you

act, the higher your success rate will be with women. The man who hesitates often loses many opportunities that would have otherwise been there for him.  So if you have had a great conversation with a girl, and she is smiling and enjoying your company, it is time to ask her out. Don't delay. Don't procrastinate.

Many men make the mistake of believing that they could do it later. But this is the biggest mistake you can make. Remember, women are highly emotional creatures. Women are also very impulsive and in the moment

creatures. Just because a woman is laughing and having a great time with you now, it does not mean that she'll be in that same mood the next time you see her.

The way a woman is feeling in the moment will determine her response to you. If you believe that you can have a wonderful conversation with a woman today and then wait one week and then ask her out, seven days later, what you are doing is putting a huge, unnecessary risk on yourself.

Seven days later she might have her period, something bad might have happened to her, she might be tired, or she might have forgotten about your great conversation altogether. And then when you ask her out, it's going to be incongruent, it's going to seem like it's coming out of the blue. And it just probably won't work, where the chances are a lot less likely.

You need to ask a woman out when the flirtation is fresh in her mind. The best time to do it is always now. The sooner you ask a woman out the better. This is of course a generalization, but it is generally true.

So now that you've been having a wonderful conversation it's time to ask her out.

When you get to this stage remember the following:

The outcome is not important. All that matters is the action. All you have control over in life is your actions. The outcome is outside of your control. To worry about something that is outside of your control is insanity.

All you have to do is take the action and then get a response. There is no magic formula other than this. As long as you do the action, you are a winner.

Why?

Because the only thing you control is your actions.

Take enough actions and you will eventually get the outcome you want. It’s that simple

Here’s a tip:

Instead of asking a woman a question, "Would you go out with me?" what

you're going to do is you're going to offer her an invitation.

Instead of saying to a girl, "Would you go out with me for dinner next Friday?" you can say, "I am going out next Friday for dinner. You should join me."

You are demonstrating that you are a cool guy and that you have things going on in your life; you are just inviting her to join your fun life.

It shows that you are not dependent on her for your happiness. And women love to see that in a man.

Exercise. Make it a habit to invite people to activities that you are already going to do. Once you make this a habit, it will come across a lot more naturally when you're saying it to the woman who you're interested in.

Remember, all you're doing is saying, "I'm going to XYZ place on this day.

You should come. It would be fun." That's all you're doing, is inviting them. It's casual, it's low pressure, and it's no problem if they say no.

If a woman tells you that she would love to come, but she's busy on that day, you can just casually say, "OK, no problem, let's just keep in touch and we can hang out some other time. What's the best way to contact you?" Then she will either give you her number, or her Facebook, or whatever method that she finds best for her.

                                                              

                          9 - How To Use Facebook & Texting To Get Her On A Date With You

Usually if a woman is interested in you she will either give you her phone number or her Facebook. If a woman ever says "It's OK, I'll just take your number" then don't do it. She is not interested. If a woman is unwilling to give you her phone number or her Facebook that usually means she is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you.

So now that you have her Facebook or her phone number or both you can start to communicate with her. There is no rule of how long you need to wait before talking to her. If she gave you her number then you can text her very soon after.

The basic rules are as follows:

Once you get her contact information stay cool and don’t act too needy. Don’t be the guy who’s calling her 10 times a day and stalking her on Facebook ;) Be chill.

Texting and Facebook messaging: Keep your texts and your Facebook messages brief. Keep them playful.

If a woman smells any kind of desperation in your communication she will run the opposite way, so lean back, relax. Stay casual. Stay playful. Flirt. Remember there are millions of hot women out there, so maintain an abundance mentality at all times.

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                                             1 - ABC’s Of Style & Body Language

Now you have the correct mindset to go out and get a girlfriend. And you have the ability to be confident for the simple fact that you have the ability to be honest, so you are already confident now. And thirdly, you  know exactly what she needs and how to give it to her. So now, it's time to prepare yourself to actually go out and get her.

Body language and style are very important for one simple reason. 93% of our communication is non‑verbal. What this means is that the words we say only account for 7% of what we are communicating. The other 93% is our body language and our tone of voice. know, I will teach you the basics of body language and style that women find attractive.

So, let's start with style. It is important to take care of your body. You need to stay healthy. You don't need to have six‑pack abs or huge muscles, but it is important that when people look at you, they do not see a slob. They see someone who takes care of himself. Exercise regularly. Eat healthy food. Look your best. It's not about having a perfect body, but it is about making the best with what you have. First impressions are very important, so you want to make sure that you make the best first impression that you possibly can.

Style, clothes and accessories: Women judge you on how you dress. Make sure that your clothes fit your body. Loose clothing is not generally attractive, unless it's a particular style such as if you're a rapper, then it's fine. But if you're not a rapper, and you have an oversized shirt and your pants don't really fit you either, and if you have old sneakers or boots that you should have thrown away three years ago, then those are blocking you from attracting women. Try your best to have new clothes, keep your clothes clean and well

fitting to your body.

Shoes are another important thing. Keep your shoes clean. Women judge a lot by a man's shoes. If you have nice shoes but they're filthy, she will think that you're a slob in your life. So keep your shoes clean. Keep all body hairs trimmed and short. Make sure you always smell good and are clean as well. Women have a more sensitive sense of smell than men, so make sure that you always smell good.

So, those are just the basics of style‑ Dress in clean clothes, keep your body clean, keep your body hairs trimmed, exercise regularly, try to eat healthy, and just make the best of what you have. Women will
appreciate you for it.

The next important aspect of attraction is body language.

 Body language comes down to your tone of voice and the way you hold yourself.

Basically, when you completely accept yourself and like yourself, then all your body language will automatically be on cue; you will come across as congruent.

Remember: just be honest, transparent and go for what you want; it’s that simple.

 Do that and you will appear confident to everyone.

 When you accept yourself; others have no choice but to accept you.

 Once you adopt these mindsets and style habits, people will perceive you as more attractive and more confident. Once you have this style and body language done, you will see that women will be attracted to you before you even say a single word. Remember, body language accounts for 93 % of communication, so do not neglect it. It is much more important than the simple words you say when you talk to the girl you like.

                                       5 - How To Stay Out Of The Friend Zone

A lot of men make the mistake of not expressing their interest in a woman and ending up in the friend zone. If you do not somehow communicate to the woman that you are interested in her, then she is going to think you are just being friendly. And then she will slot you in the

friend zone.

The friend zone is somewhere you want to avoid at all costs, because once a woman puts you into the friend zone, it is almost impossible for you to get out. A good way to prevent this from happening is by giving her a genuine compliment .

A woman will understand that you are not just talking to her because you want to be friends with her but because you are interested in something more intimate. It is critical that you set the frame of the relationship very early on. By complimenting her early on, you are setting the frame that this is a romantic interaction and not just an innocent friendly exchange.

So, by giving her a compliment you are keeping yourself out of the friend zone and you are also letting her know that this is a romantic interaction and not just a platonic one. Don't be afraid to compliment a woman. Don’t be afraid to flirt with women. WOMAN LOVE TO BE COMPLIMENTED and flirted with!

The beauty industry is a multi‑billion dollar industry. It is therefore a reason because women love to look good, and women long to be appreciated. Think of women as flowers and you the warm sun. Flowers need the warm rays of the sun to shine upon them in order for the flowers to blossom.

Women need the heat of your genuine appreciation in order for their souls to blossom. I never get a bad reaction when I compliment a woman. Giving a woman a genuine compliment, especially at a time when she doesn't expect it, makes her open up to you in ways that are astounding. Women long, yearn and need your appreciation and your compliments. So do not be afraid to give them.

A good way to compliment a woman is to compliment her on something very specific. You can compliment her on the way she speaks, the way her eyes sparkle, the way her dress complements her body so well. You can compliment the way she moves, the way she walks.

You can compliment her on the way she smells, her beautiful smile, the sparkle in her eye. The more genuine and specific your compliment is, the better it will be received. Women receive thousands of compliments during their lifetimes, but most of those compliments are superficial and general.

A beautiful woman has heard 'Oh my God, you are so beautiful' a thousand times. But it is the rare man who will point out the specifics of what makes her so attractive that will sweep her off her feet. So be specific in your compliments and you will see that they have such a huge impact in regards to opening up women to you.

Another advantage of giving women compliments is this‑ When you give a woman a compliment, you are putting yourself out there. You are putting your ego on the line and she recognizes this fully. Women appreciate men who are brave and confident enough to speak their minds. By complimenting her in a genuine way, you are being honest. And honesty lets her feel safe, and when she is safe, she opens up emotionally and when she has opened up emotionally she is ready to be attracted to you.

By complimenting women regularly, you are setting yourself apart from over 95% of the men out there who just give general thoughtless compliments. The time to give a woman a compliment is as soon as possible. If you start talking to a woman, you can compliment her within the first five seconds of talking to her.

If you prepare a compliment at home and then go and try to use it on a woman, chances are it won't be nearly as impactful as if you just speak your mind at the moment.

Exercise: Make complimenting people, a habit. From now on, whenever you are in the supermarket, on the street, at school or at work or wherever, anytime you see something that you admire in another person, make it a point to compliment them. Make it in a very casual, matter of fact way and just make it a habit to appreciate people.

I have personally adopted this habit and still practice it today. Every time I see a beautiful woman, I compliment her. Every time I see a person I admire, I compliment them. I compliment men, I compliment women, I compliment anyone who deserves a compliment.

Do not hold compliments back; because once it becomes a habit, then it comes out a lot more genuinely when you need it most. So the next time you meet the woman of your dreams that compliment will just flow off your tongue and she will just love you for it.

A compliment shows your intention with a woman. Make sure you include it in your repertoire of tools. If you do not express explicit interest in a woman, she might slot you in a friend zone and the friend zone is usually a life sentence. So stay away from it at all costs!

                                        7 - How to Keep The Conversation Flowing

Okay, so now that you've complimented her and she has responded positively, you know that she might be interested.

If a woman receives your compliment in a negative way, then chances are she's not interested in you. And you should probably cut your losses and move on to the next girl. But provided that she is responding to you
positively so far, it is time to continue the conversation forward.

Keeping a conversation flowing was my biggest fear when it came to women. Growing up I was very shy, insecure and quiet. I will tell you now in all honesty that I am a very quiet person. Even when I'm with my closest friends I tend not to talk very much. So keeping a conversation flowing was my biggest fear when it came to seducing women.

In this chapter we are going to learn how to keep the conversation flowing easily and effortlessly so that both of you may be relaxed and enjoy the process. First, let's put down some guidelines for your conversation.

When you're talking to the girl you like, you must keep the conversation lighthearted and playful. Do not talk about anything negative. You want her to associate you with feeling good, not feeling bad. So make sure most of your conversations with the girl you're interested in are lighthearted, playful, and fun.

The more you guys can laugh together the more successful your seduction will be. But if you're not naturally that funny, I know I'm not that funny, then don't worry. Being funny is not a prerequisite to successfully attracting a girl. All you need to do is be positive, lighthearted, playful, and a bit flirtatious.

Next we will explore how to stay lighthearted, playful and flirtatious. The foundation of any enjoyable conversation is that both people are present in the moment with each other. I would like you to think about an instance when you were with your best friends. And you were all chilling out on the couch, enjoying each other's company, laughing and having a great time.

Notice that at that time your body was relaxed, and you were not all up in your head thinking about, "What am I going to say next?" You were just in the moment, spontaneous, and allowing every moment to unfold as it does naturally.

What makes men turn serious when they're talking to attractive women is this: when you go up in your head and start thinking about and planning what you're going to say next, what happens is you get sucked into your head. If you are up in your head thinking about what you're going to say next, then you have lost the present moment.

You are no longer there, present with her. You have left. Your body is there physically, but mentally you're not there anymore. This is a very big mistake that most men make. And it is a deadly one, because if a woman you are talking to feels like you're not present with her, she will disconnect from you. She will not feel you anymore. And if she cannot feel you anymore then she's not going to feel attracted to you.

When talking to a woman you need to keep the connection between you and her solid. And you do this by being completely present in the moment with her, and staying out of your head. Thinking is highly overrated. The truth of the matter is you do not ever have to think about what you are going to say next.

When you're present you hear what the other person is saying more, and most importantly you stay connected with the woman. The best way to keep a conversation comfortable and flowing with a woman is to stay completely present with her.

The idea is to have so much attention focused on her that you completely forget about yourself. Focus on how deep she is breathing, how fast or slow she is breathing. Are her eyes and pupils dilating? Is she playing with her hair? What is her body language? Is she touching herself in any way? Is she fixing her dress?
When you put that much attention on a woman she cannot help but be seduced by you. Because it is the rare man who gives her such undivided and genuine attention.

The way into a woman's heart is by being fully present and witness to her. When she feels you present with her, then she feels you, and is connected to you, and trusts you, and is open to starting some kind of intimate
relationship with you.

Remember, women need to feel safe. When you're all up in your head talking to her and you're not present with her, she can feel that. She can see that you're distracted. This makes her nervous. This makes her feel like you're hiding something. So this makes her close down because her need for safety is not being met.
Conversely you can be completely present with her, and make her feel safe and connected with you.

You must have faith. It comes down to science. Our logical mind is not where the creativity happens. Our creativity happens in our subconscious mind. And the prerequisite for creativity is full in‑the‑moment presence; is a silent mind. So you have no choice but to be present with women, because that's what it takes to connect with them, and that's what it takes to get your creativity flowing. Anything else will not work.

Exercise. Go out and practice full presence in all of your communications with people. See how long you can stay connected and present with someone without thinking of what you're going to say next. This is  hallenging at first, but quickly becomes a habit.

The more present you can stay with a woman the easier it will be to attract and seduce her. Men who truly are present with women and truly connect and listen to women are few and far between. By being that man you are literally separating yourself from the millions of men out here. Go out, practice and make this a habit.

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