how to get a girlfriend: attractive qualities that woman love

last time we saw guide on how to get a girlfriend and today we will see the  qualities that woman love to find it in a man.

Before we get into all the exercises and techniques I’m about to give you—Iwant to tell you how all the pieces fit together and why this works. In this section we will cover the essential Attractive Qualities a man must possess to attract women and how you communicate those qualities .
ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES

To be attractive to women men must demonstrate qualities which are attractive to women. Some of these things may sound obvious, but hang in there because this rabbit hole goes pretty deep pretty fast. As we go

deeper in the book I will give you very concrete examples of how to communicate these qualities to women.

This is a long list. Don’t let its size overwhelm you. As you read the rest of the book these concepts are going to be presented bit by bit. This list is here to introduce you to the breadth of the problem we face as men when communicating with women.

Here is a list of the essential attractive qualities:

1 You live in your own world—women find men who are doing their own thing extremely attractive. You decide what you want, you lead other people into your reality, your reality is entirely your own, you are

doing exactly what it is that you want to do in life.

2 You are emotionally unaffected by outside reality—we also call this “un-reactive.”When a woman sees that you are emotionally unaffected by outside factors, especially her, she gets all flipped out internally.

This is because most men get emotional around her. She can look at most guys that approach her and she knows based on their subtle (leaning in) or not so subtle (“You are HOT!”) communications that she

already has emotionally affected them. This makes the men seem needy as she hasn’t demonstrated any of her personality and they are already all over her. She dismisses them as shallow loosers. But if you walk up to her and are emotionally unaffected she starts to notice it herself—“Hey! Why haven’t I affected this guy! It must be because I haven’t shown off my attractive qualities to him!” and then she starts to work to get the emotionally unaffected man. She also thinks to herself “This guy is so chill around me and I’m so HOT that he must get girls like me all the time. He must be some sort of hot shot mega star!” Women sleep with men they think about in this way. Being emotionally unaffected by outside reality speaks to great internal strength

which women find extremely attractive.

3 You are not validated by outside reality—we also call this “non-reaction” seeking. If you are internally validated and therefore don’t look to the outside for validation women pickup on this. This also speaks to

great internal strength which women find extremely attractive.

4 You are well kept—women spend hours making themselves beautiful every day. If they meet a guy who is well groomed they really appreciate that man and they let attraction happen.

5 You are FUN—women love to have fun. If you show them a good time they will be attracted to you for it. So many guys have NO IDEA how to have fun (but you aren’t going to be one of those after you read this

book!).

6 You are a selfless GIVER—only the most abundant and powerful men selflessly give out their emotional energy, fun, intelligence, wit, conversation and everything else that two people in an interaction can

exchange. Giving is a massively huge attractor as long as you do it right. I don’t mean go up to her and buy her a drink!

7 You are rich—you don’t actually have to be rich. You just have to act like a guy who comes from a place of abundance in all forms.

8 You are intelligent—Intelligence is sexy!

9 You are socially savvy—Women are naturally and intuitively social experts, the more your on their level, the more they like you. Friendliness oozes from you like a wave. When the rare socially savvy man comes along they notice right away and really appreciate it.

10 You are a leader of men—Monika Lewinsky slept with Bill Clinton for a reason. I’m going to teach you how to act like a leader so your girl is taking her dress to the dry cleaners too. All women secretly want to be LED and dominated.

11 You have a vision—Women love to be swept up in some epic seeming adventure completely entrenched in your reality.

12 You are pre-selected—Other girls dig you. When women see you with other women this automatically triggers jealousy and attraction for you. This is massively hardwired in their brains.

13 You are a protector of loved ones—women want to know that if they align with you, you will protect and provide for them. This comes from the fact that modern humans evolved largely in the caveman era, not

modern society, when protection was extremely important. Hence, women find this very attractive.

14 You understand women—if you let her know that you get the fact that she is an emotional creature she will appreciate you for it. Women find this attractive because they are sooo tired of being in interactions

with guys that “Just don’t get IT!’

15 You are humble and un-egotistical—being powerful yet underestimated is a key quality that a lot of guys simply don’t get. Women don’t appreciate braggy guys—it messes with their emotional receptors.

They want to see who you are through actions not words.

16 You are always POSITIVE—negativity destroys interactions and is so unattractive that women run from it. Meanwhile, being consistently positive will make her want to be part of your reality very, very badly.

17 You are un-needy—There is a subtle but very important distinction between “needing” and “wanting.”Psycho stalker guys need to stalk women. Attractive awesome men want to hang out with women for their nobler qualities. Attractive awesome un-needy men won’t chase her or supplicate to get that. The problem with “needing” something is that you have to have it NO MATTER WHAT. If you come off needy you immediately become weak and unattractive. The bottom line is to never come of like you have to have something. Being un-needy also speaks to being abundant, which is attractive.

18 You admire women for their personality not just SEX—if you like her for who she really is not just her cup size she will be totally attracted to you.

19 You don’t put up with BS—“Keep the Pimp Hand Strong!”—Powerful

men don’t tolerate unacceptable behavior. Powerful men are sexy.

20 You make sure your needs are met and you get what you want—if you are not gaining anything out of your interaction with her she will think you are the wussy, supplicative, servant type. You never say anything that doesn’t add to your own reality (it can also add to hers but that is optional).

21 You are comfortable to be around—both to talk too and touch! The more comfort you create the more attraction you will get!

22 You are honest and direct!—Duh! The problem I have had with other approaches out there is that some encourage a “fake it till you make it” approach. I never liked that—so I came up with my own method—

one that lets you stay honest.

23 You don’t care about outcomes—You don’t care whether you get the girl or not. You are liable to leave at any moment if she loses you. In other words you don’t give a SH*T!

24 You are fully PRESENT and in the MOMENT—this is an extremely powerful attractor.

25 You are an emotional communicator—you know how to relate to women on an emotional level with verbals and touching. This very directly causes attraction.

26 You are wildly creative— Women love men that are creative and can create fun and an interesting vibe right on the spot.

27 An effortless chill vibe emanates from you—you are really easy to be around. When people talk to you they feel no stress in your presence. Your audience feels like they can take you to their favorite vacation spot

because you would add to their level of “chill.’

28 You are vulnerable—despite having a million “super-guy” qualities, you have a softer emotional side that comes out every once in a while.

29 You are social—You are fascinated by everybody. You are the center of every social scene. You are its leader. People and women are constantly talking to you.

30 You are high value—you act and respond in ways that emulate rich or celebrity people who except to be treated in a certain way. For example, you get the best seat at the table. Another example is if there is only room for one person to lean against an object in a group of people, you are the one doing the leaning, everybody else is standing.You also act like guy who always gets his way with women. Most importantly,

you act like a guy who possesses all the qualities I list here.When you display any of these attractive qualities we call that “displaying value.” This is akin to animals in the wild kingdom showing off their shiniest

feathers to attract a mate. Fortunately, for men—if you can appropriately display value she will be attracted to you and she won’t have a choice in the matter. Men that posses a large amount of these attractive qualities we call “high value men.” Similarly, we call beautiful and personable women

“high value women.” Displaying value is different from“Giving value.” Giving value is just giving any form of value to a woman, be it entertainment, love, fun, emotional stimulation or whatever. As long as we give

value correctly we also display our own value. For example, showing a girl a good time (giving her fun) displays our value as a fun person and a giver. Unfortunately—the above is a long list of stuff to master! Pickup is the toughest thing I have ever learned. If I knew how hard it would be when I got started

(the resources weren’t that good then) I might have never done it. Fortunately, we don’t have to display all the above value at once and we don’t have to always be thinking about that list. I’m going to present to you

a system where you can learn how to display all of the above attractive qualities quickly and easily—but it will take consistent infield WORK on your part. Once you put the work in you won’t just pretend to be that super attractive guy—you will actually be that guy! And women will love you and appreciate

you deeply for it! 

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